Will My Ex Forget About Me During No Contact? – Myths DEBUNKED

"Will my ex forget about me during no contact"? That is a question I hear a lot. Could it actually happen though? Could employing no contact really ruin your chances of getting them back forever?

To straight up answer your question, No.

Your ex will not forget about you during no contact.

Unless your relationship was a total fling and didn't mean anything to them, you can rest assured that your ex won't forget about you.

But why won't they forget about you? And how can you know this for sure?

Is there anything you can do to speed up no contact and make it more effective?

Well, if the above questions interest you, I highly recommend you read this article all the way to the end because at the end, I'm going to give you something that is going to FORCE your ex back into your arms.

Sounds good?

If so,

Let's take a look...

Will My Ex Forget About Me During No Contact?

The Difficulty Of No Contact

Look, I know it's hard to not contact your ex.

Actually, it's the hardest phase to get through when you are trying to get your ex back.

If you hope to have any chances of getting them back though, you need to understand that giving your ex the time they need is your best bet right now.

You can't expect to talk your way back into their heart at the moment.

Your ex broke up with you because they lost attraction to you.

I know that's not the nicest thing to hear but the quicker you accept it, the more chances you have in succeeding.

Ask yourself this: why do you think this loss of attraction occurred?

Was it because you became too controlling in the relationship?

Maybe because you didn't let them live their life normally anymore?

Perhaps you became too lazy and had no drive for anything?

Whatever the case is, your ex got tired of it and broke up with you.

After a breakup, they are still associating you with these negative things.

What you are achieving by employing no contact is letting your ex slowly drift back into being emotionally neutral towards you.

Once this happens, you have a way better chance of actually getting them back.

Pushing through no contact is hard but what you are doing right now is letting your own limiting beliefs dictate your judgement.

You see, I have recommended no contact to at least hundreds of men and women by now with great results and guess what?

Not a single one of them came back to me like: "Oh well, I did everything as you told me to do but I guess my ex just forgot about me during the no contact period".

Not a single one.

This in itself should tell you something.

The truth is that the people who claim things like "no contact doesn't work" or "your ex will forget about you during no contact", don't actually do things properly.

This is the sole reason no contact gets a controversial reputation in the breakup world.

Yes, people start out fine but then as soon as their ex gives them the slightest hint of interest, they think that starting a conversation with them is a great idea.

Wrong!

You need to stay strong and actually be silent for the full time period. If you are going to be starting no contact, commit to it!

What Actually Happens During No Contact

If you are already getting sick of me convincing you to start employing no contact, beware because more is coming.

After a breakup, people usually fall into one of two categories.

A) people who want to get over their ex.

B) people who want to get their ex back.

If you belong to EITHER one of those groups, employing no contact is the best way to achieve your goal.

Now, since you are reading this article and you are worried that your ex might forget about you during this time, I'm assuming you fall into the latter category.

Here is the thing though:

You will never get them back if you don't disappear for a while and you just act normal.

Put it this way:

They currently aren't attracted to you. Otherwise, they wouldn't have broken up with you. If you now try to convince them and beg them to take you back, why would they?

Your ex hasn't yet seen any change in you so they have no reason to take you back. 

Simply, they need time in order to take a break from you and let all the negative emotions like anger and resentment fade.

You will have a much better shot of getting them back if you let them return to a more neutral state when it comes to you.

Also, it's not like you are going to be laying on the couch bored to death for the entirety of the no contact period.

No, desperately waiting for your ex to contact you while sitting inside your house is a big mistake.

If you want to have the best chances of getting them back, you are going to be out there improving yourself, going to the gym, eating healthier, things like that.

Well, If They Won't Forget About Me, What Will They Be Thinking During No Contact?

This is a good question.

You might be wondering that since I already told you there is no way they forget about you during no contact, what is it then that they will be thinking during this time?

As previously mentioned, no contact WILL make your ex miss you.

I don't care how badly things ended between you two. It's wired into our DNA.

Your ex was used to you being around all day, texting and just generally staying in touch.

Then, you suddenly vanish off the face of the earth.

Think about this:

Do you miss someone who you see and talk to every day?

No?

Well, do you miss someone who you USED to talk to every day, but then they suddenly disappear and you can't get in touch with them?

You might not miss them right away, that's true.

But as time keeps going on, you will start to wonder what's going on and this exact same principle applies to your ex.

"Why haven't they reached out"?

"I wonder what they are doing".

"Have they moved on this quickly"?

"Have they found someone else"?

Assuming it was your ex who dumped you, after the breakup, they were probably thinking that they could get you back just by giving you one phone call.

Now that you are employing no contact, they see that you aren't that easy.

They will start to have questions about you in their head and obviously, they aren't going to be getting any answers for a while.

Their curiosity will never be satisfied since you are staying quiet the whole time.

Eventually, the mystery you have created with no contact will cause your ex to start thinking about your past relationship.

The good and the bad. The beauty here is that since you aren't contacting them at all and they are starting to miss you, they are much more likely to memorize and fond over the good memories of your relationship, rather than the bad.

Days are passing and you still aren't giving them any answers. Your ex is really starting to feel your disappearance and the curiosity is weighing on them.

No contact truly is the most powerful tool you can use to get them back.

Use This During No Contact And Force Your Ex Back

If you've read this article all the way here, I have got some great news for you.

I'm going to give you a tool that is going to force your ex to feel so much emotional obsession towards you that they have no other choice but to take you back.

What I'm talking about is a video presentation made by Brad Browning.

Maybe you've heard about him before, maybe you haven't. 

All you need to know about him right now is that he is the guy who is going to fix your relationship faster than you think.

Summary