How To Make Your Man Feel Like A Hero – The Relationship Skill That Makes All The Difference

If you're in a relationship with a man, there is no greater feeling to have than to see a big juicy smile on his face.

It makes you smile too and it makes you feel warm inside...

And how can you make a man feel this way you may ask?

Make him feel like a hero!

Whether you are casually dating or whether you are already in a serious and committed relationship, making a man feel "heroic" and like he is there to save you is an amazing goal to have in a relationship.

It may sound cheesy... But trust me, if you manage to achieve this, your man will feel like the luckiest guy in the world.

My name is Isabella, and here is my best advice regarding this topic:

#1 Give Your Man Lots Of  Compliments

This should be easy.

Apparently, it's not. There are countless of men I talk to who tell me that their girlfriends/wives never almost never compliment them.

Guys need compliments too!

Your boyfriend/husband/guy you are seeing will NEVER admit this but trust me, he loves to get complimented just as much if not more than you do.

Tell him that his hair looks good. Tell him that his body is looking extra sexy today. Make it seem really genuine and I guarantee he will remember and think about your compliments for a long time.

#2 Do Little Things For Him

Examples for this can include bringing him food after work, getting him his favorite coffee, surprising him with his favorite ice cream, etc.

These are all little things but they will mean the world to him because you will show him that you are thinking about him.

Just think about how it feels like when he gives you one of his sweatshirts. Pretty great right? Or when he gives you a surprise gift?

It isn't any different with men!

#3 Flirt With Him

Flirting is a thing that often gets forgotten the further a relationship develops and to some extent, this is completely understandable.

However, in order for a relationship to stay fresh, flirting is a must.

Once the honeymoon stage of a relationship is over, flirting will naturally decrease... But the thing is, you should try your absolute hardest to keep a flirty vibe in a relationship unless you want to risk lost feelings.

This will keep things fresh and it will keep his eyes on you, and only you.

#4 Listen To Him When He Is Talking

When he is telling you something, listen to him.

You might feel like you are already doing this but ask yourself are you really?

Drop your phone and make eye contact with him when he is telling you something.

Eye contact and giving him your full attention will subconsciously make him value you a lot more.

And I know that men can sometimes just ramble about their boring work day or about sports... But if you make an effort to listen to him I promise you you will see a change in your relationship.

#5 Try To Remove All Neediness

Neediness is a trait that is incredibly harmful in a relationship. Plain and simple.

If you are constantly seeking validation from him and acting in a way where he needs to verify and assure his feelings for you constantly, your relationship will be in a tough spot sooner rather than later.

Neediness just is not an attractive trait plainly and simply. Just think about it if a guy is needy... It's super unattractive right?

The same is true vice versa.

#6 Avoid Being Controlling At All Costs

Now, first off let me say that there is nothing wrong with a little jealousy for him.

You can and should be jealous of him if he gives you a reason to do so...

However, there is a fine line between being jealous and being overly jealous.

You might think that being overly jealous about him will let him know how much you love him but actually, it does the opposite. It will make him think you are really insecure and needy and it will reduce his attraction towards you very fast.

#7 Always Be Honest With Him

Be honest when you are talking with him. If you don't like something he does/says, voice your opinion.

If he offers to do something and you don't like it, don't shy away from telling him how you really feel!

This is important because it will build trust and honesty between you two and it will increase the mutual respect you two have.

Just remember, honesty is attractive!

#8 Sometimes Put Yourself First

Sometimes, there is nothing wrong with putting yourself at the front seat and prioritizing your own life over all else.

Instead of putting your efforts into keeping him happy, you will pour all that effort into yourself.

Start working out more, start eating healthier, go out with your friends, have more girls night outs.

Things like this will show him that you have your own life too... And a girl that has her own life too is incredibly incredibly attractive to men!

#9 Communication

If there was one tip I really wanted you to take home from this article, it would be this one.

Always prioritize the communication you have with him over all else!

If you are lacking in the communication department, you are in for a lot of trouble so please, this is the thing you should try to focus on above all else!

#10 Don’t Reject Him.

Don’t ever reject his efforts to make you feel happy. If your boyfriend messes up the kitchen just a little while preparing breakfast for you, don’t scold him for that because he’ll feel stupid for trying to do something nice for you.

Instead, just be happy that you have someone who exerts so much effort to make you happy. So, don’t ever try to make him feel rejected. By appreciating him, he’ll feel loved by you

#11 Give Him Long Hugs

This one is self-explanatory.

Just think about how good a long warm hug feels for you!

Pretty amazing right?

If you hug him tight you will show him just how much you appreciate him!

#12 Have Common Goals With Him

This is a super underrated tip!

Having common goals with your man is an amazing boost to your relationship.

Whether those goals relate to building a house, travelling, starting a family or just simply hobbies, common goals are amazing to have.

You can plan things together and even start chasing your goals together... And I can tell you that that is a great feeling!

Conclusion

There you have it ladies! Those are some of the best tips I can give you to make your man feel important.

As always, leave me feedback in the comments for what you think about this article!