How To Be More Confident Around Guys – Tip #17 Is A LIFE SAVER

Confidence is probably the single most attractive trait you can possess as a female so today, in an order to help you out, I'm going to give you 17 amazing tips on how to be more confident around guys.

When you combine the tips of this article with the complimentary video presentation I'll link to you at tip #17, I can guarantee you that you will be set up for life when it comes to attracting guys.

Enjoy!

#1 Workout & Eat Healthy

This is the simplest, easiest most "I already knew that" tip to improve your confidence...

...yet, SO MANY girls overlook the importance of exercise and healthy nutrition and it's impact on your confidence.

Working out will not only make you look better on the outside and thus increase your confidence, but it will also make you happier on the inside.

Now, you don't have to become a fitness addict to become confident around guys. All I'm saying is that working out has been scientifically proven to make you happier and happier = more confident.

Being healthy will obviously also make you feel better about yourself.

If you are obese, lazy and unhealthy, you obviously aren't going to be on the same level of confidence as someone who has all these things sorted out.

Working out and eating healthy will translate into becoming more confident around guys, I guarantee it.

#2 Have A Hobby That You Like

Being competitive and being good at something will increase your confidence no questions asked.

If you currently have no hobbies, I highly suggest you get some... And then get good at them!

The feeling of being good at something is amazing and it will translate to many things in life including confidence.

#3 Dress To Impress

Always dress to impress. Looking good will make you feel good, simple as that.

If you walk into a room and you immediately know that you are the best-dressed girl in there, guys will inevitably check you out and give you attention even if you aren't the best LOOKING girl.

Also, don't wear things you don't want to wear just because they are "in style". If you aren't comfortable in your outfit, guys will pick up on it and they will notice.

Wear something that makes you feel like a queen. Something that just radiates confidence.

Putting on a brand new outfit you love is the easiest way to get a huge confidence boost especially if you are going out on a date.

IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: This does NOT mean that you have to buy designer clothes. You can find AMAZING outfits for dirt cheap both online, and at thrift stores for example.

#4 Don't Make Decisions Based On What Other People Think Of You

Train yourself into making decisions on your own, not based on what other people think about you.

Let's take an example here:

You are blasting a new Ariana Grande song in your car when someone pulls next to you. Do you A) turn the volume down so the other person doesn't hear you or B) keep blasting that song because you enjoy it and you don't care what other people think.

If you answered A) to the above, you are in the wrong mindset and you need to get out of it in order for you to become more confident.

When you care about what every single guy thinks of you and you try to please them with your decisions, you are actually just lowering your value in their eyes.

No matter how bad we guys are with girls, we pick up on a person who is trying to overly please us and it's not an attractive trait.

Instead of turning the music down, blast that thing on full volume.

I guarantee this:

EVEN if the guy HATES Ariana Grande, he is going to think "Damn, this girl has some balls to blast this song in front of me full volume..."

This is obviously just one example of modifying your decisions based on other people... But I hope that you see my point!

#5 Watch Girls Who Are Confident And Do Some Of The Stuff They Do

You most likely know at least a couple of girls who are extremely confident and if you don't, just pick a boss woman from a TV-show or a movie.

Then, emulate some of the stuff they are doing. How they walk, how they use their voice tone, things like that.

This will give you a feel of how a confident person acts and the kind of impact confidence has on your dating life for example.

#6 Be Yourself

Being yourself around guys is hard, I get that.

In this modern society we live in, we are so worried about what other people think yet we admire the people who actually are able to be completely themselves in every situation.

If you have an opinion on something that gets brought up when you are around guys, voice it!

Don't walk your whole life on eggshells just because you are afraid of offending someone.

Guys love a challenge and if you don't agree on something he says for example, tell him! This shows confidence on your part because the guy knows that you aren't afraid of offending him and that you aren't needy.

#7 Have Positive People In Your Life

This includes having a good relationship with your friends and family.

Having a lot of positive people in your life will make you feel better about your own life and in turn, more confident.

Also, if you don't have very many positive friends right now, go make some!

Making friends is really not as hard as everyone makes it out to be. Also, you will probably meet plenty if you pick up a new hobby as I mentioned in a previous tip.

#8 Don't Waste Your Time

This is a huge one.

Don't waste your time (and life) away by doing useless stuff that doesn't benefit you, or your confidence in any way.

If you're currently spending 10 hours a day on TikTok... It's time to make some changes and I know that you already know that.

You don't have an unlimited amount of time so use it wisely!

Every time you choose to do something you are choosing how to spend your time. If you choose to spend it on useless stuff like sitting on TikTok or Facebook for 6 hours a day, you are telling yourself that your time isn't much and that you are kind of a loser.

Obviously, subconsciously telling yourself that you are a loser on a daily basis isn't very good for your confidence.

So, get out of this mentality and you will become way more confident!

#9 Be Ambitious

It's very important that you have goals and ambitions when becoming more confident as a person. It makes you feel like you have a purpose in life thus increasing your confidence.

If you currently have no ambitions, get some! No matter how unrealistic or "weird" they are, get some goals and ambitions so you have something to strive for!

Do you want to be a professional video game player? Go for it!

A professional dog trainer? You're set!

Whatever your goals are, strive to achieve them!

#10 Get Enough Sleep Every Night

This should come as no surprise but getting enough sleep is literally one of the most crucial things for feeling good yet EVERYONE overlooks it.

If you feel and look like a zombie 24/7, you aren't really going to be radiating confidence when you are hanging out with guys.

In fact, you won't even be able to function or think properly so get into a good sleep schedule and then stick to it.

#11 Don't Make Excuses

I know that there are going to be people who are reading this article right now and thinking to themselves: "yeah but I can't really apply that tip into my own life because blah blah blah".

Stop making excuses!

#12 Remove Negative People From Your Life

Being around negative people has been scientifically proven to make you more negative aswell.

Now, when I say negative people, there are most likely at least a couple of persons that pop into your head right?

If there aren't any, good for you but if there are, you really need to asses whether or not these people are actually doing anything positive to you or benefiting you in any way.

#13 Laugh

I'm being serious here. Laughing has been scientifically proven to make you ease up and make you happier.

The next time you know you are going to be seeing a guy, put on a funny TV-show or a movie. 

#14 Ignore Stupidity

Seriously. There are so many people I have known in my life that make a big deal out of the smallest things.

If you play a sport, let's take golf in this example and someone you don't know comes over to you and says: "golf absolutely sucks, it's boring".

Are you going to get offended by that?

I sure as hell hope not.

Getting offended by stuff random people say shows that you aren't confident enough in yourself to be above that kind of petty and childish stuff.

#15 Don't Overanalyze Everything The Guy Says

I know this is affecting you since it affects literally every girl that's nervous around guys.

Thinking too much about what the guy is saying during and after the conversation.

If you just focus on listening to him and you stop looking for all these hidden messages and signals in his conversation, you will be a lot more yourself.

Give him your honest answers for everything with no secret intentions and you will make talking to guys a lot easier on yourself.

Trust me, guys can tell when you overthink everything you say and you are really anxious about not saying the wrong things and it's just irritating.

You will just make guys tenser around you since they will pick up that you are probably overthinking everything they are saying as well. Once this happens, it immediately makes him not into you because he feels uncomfortable.

What you want to create is a fun and relaxed atmosphere. Really understand that. Talking and socializing with guys should be fun!

#16 Keep It Relaxed

Similar to the previous tip, you should focus on keeping the flow and the vibe of the conversation relaxed.

When you meet a guy, don't start out by going too deep on your topics. The guy might not be comfortable talking about such things yet.

Also, you yourself might subconsciously feel less confident when revealing things about yourself without knowing anything about the guy yet.

So, keep it slow and don't create any pressure from the get-go.

#17 Love Commands - Complimentary Video

At the beginning of this article, I told you about a special complimentary video I wanted you to combine with this article... and we've now arrived at that point where it is time for you to find a good spot, find some earphones and watch the most important video of your life (If f you want to attract a guy easier than you ever thought possible).

Down below, I've left a link to you that will introduce something called "Love Commands" to you.

If you've never heard of "Love Commands", they are basically sentences you use with a guy that provoke him to feel a sudden rush of addictive love for you in a way where he won't even be able to look at you without feeling butterflies in his stomach...

If you're immediately skeptical... I get it.

However, please be warned. Once you actually use this on a guy of your choice, here is what is going to happen with a 100% certainty:

First his heart will start to race.

Next, his breathing will get faster.

Then, you will flood his brain with something called norepinephrine... Also known as the "excitement hormone".

By the time this has happened, he will suddenly feel a rush of intense desire towards you, almost as if he has been forced to drink a real life love-potion.

This is so powerful, it will even work on that guy that completely rejected you in the past or the guy that currently doesn't have ANY feelings for you.

Still don't believe me?

Just watch and see...