So, something has happened and you and your ex have broken up.
If your ex was the one to break up with you, you probably see them acting all happy and smiles.
"How did they get over me so quickly"? "Does my ex miss me at all"?
These are questions that could be running through your mind during this time.
What if I told you that there is a very good likelihood they will start missing you very soon if they haven't already?
I know it might seem like they got over you really quickly based on how they are portraying themselves to you but I'm going to list some very good indicators you can look for down below.
Let's begin.
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Does My Ex Miss Me Right After The Breakup?
If it's only been a couple of days, your ex most likely isn't missing you yet.
Okay obviously, if they were madly in love with you and you just dumped them out of the blue then yes, they will be missing you even right after the breakup...
However, since you are reading this article, I'm going to assume that they were the ones to break up with you or at least that you didn't flat out dump them for no reason all of the sudden.
Unless they were madly in love with you and you dumped them, they most likely aren't missing you right after the breakup.
You see, breaking up is never an easy task. People usually start thinking about breaking up way before they actually initiate the thing.
That was likely the case with your ex too and now that they have finally gotten the breakup over with, they feel relieved.
This means that right after a breakup, your ex most likely won't be missing you.
They can even try to showcase to everyone how happy they are now that they are finally single and got rid of you but the truth will show it's face really soon.
This stage can last from a few weeks up to a few months. It all depends on your ex and the things you do during this time (more on that at the end of this article).
When Does My Ex Start To Miss Me?
Once the high after the breakup starts to fade, your ex's real feelings start to shine through.
Now, this only happens if you don't mess anything up right after the breakup like constantly calling them and begging them to take you back.
If you play your cards right and for example read the guide on how to employ no contact, or follow the thing I'm revealing at the end of this article, it won't take very long for them to start missing you.
But why no contact? Why can't you just talk to them daily?
Well, if you talk to and see someone every single day, you aren't going to be missing them very much right?
But what if you have been talking to someone for a long time but then they suddenly disappear?
This same principle applies to your ex. They need to actually feel your absence and see you disappear so they can develop these feelings in their brain.
In order for them to miss you, they need to actually see what life is like without you constantly being around them.
The no contact phase will last for a duration of at least a month and during this time you will be doing all sorts of self-improvement things (full no contact guide linked above).
Eventually, once enough time has passed and the negative emotions of breaking up with you are starting to fade, their head will start to get filled with positive memories of you.
Does My Ex Miss Me Even If They Are Dating Someone New?
The situation where your ex is dating someone else can be really hard to accept, especially if you are looking to get them back.
The good news here is that if they hop into a new relationship right after breaking up with you, they are in what's called a rebound relationship.
Rebounds are short term relationship that happen because your ex felt they needed someone by their side.
Rebound are quite common after breakups but you shouldn't be really worried about these kinds of relationships.
Them getting into a rebound is their kind of coping mechanism for your breakup.
The thing about rebounds is that they pretty much never last for more than a couple of months at the absolute max.
Once they do eventually break up with their rebound, it's very likely that they will be missing you quite a bit.
You see, now they have gone through two breakups already and they are thinking: "what a waste of time that second relationship was".
They will start to think about all the good things in your old relationship and trust me, at this point they will be missing you.
What If My Ex Tells Me That They Don't Miss Me?
This is a really unlikely scenario but I thought I might as well cover it here.
First of all, you are hopefully employing no contact by now because you know it's the best way to make them actually miss you. That means you aren't asking your ex this question, which leads me to my second point:
Why would they tell you this? What would they gain from telling you that they don't miss you at all?
Unless you really hurt them badly by cheating on them with their best friend for example, your ex has no reason to just flat out contact you and tell you that they don't miss you.
By doing this they would just be going out of their way to be mean to you.
They have no reason to tell you this and you are hopefully already employing no contact anyway.
If by some miracle this does happen though, you shouldn't believe them.
When they are taking all the time and effort out of their day to voluntarily reach out to you just to tell you that they don't miss you, it usually actually means the opposite and they are just acting immature.
Whatever the case is, you need to still get some space between you two to cool things off and rebuild attraction later if your goal is to get them back.
Will They Miss Me If I Give Them Space?
Yes.
The absolute fastest way to make them miss you is to completely vanish for a while and do your own thing.
By completely ignoring them and not contacting them for a while, you show them that you aren't needy. You don't need anything from them and you are just enjoying your own life after the breakup.
Obviously, what your ex doesn't know is that you are doing this on purpose and everything is working as indented by you.
Will They Miss Me If Our Breakup Was Really Rough?
It depends on your relationship.
Were you two really close and then something bad happened that caused you two break up?
If so, yes, there is a very good likelihood that with enough time, they will indeed start to miss you.
Actually, I would say it's guaranteed.
If you two were very close, there is indeed a really good chance that they will still begin to miss you after a while.
If however, you feel like the spark in your relationship died a long time ago and the breakup was just an elephant in the room waiting to happen, they probably won't be missing you since the attraction between you two had died a long time ago.
How Long Will It Take For My Ex To Miss Me?
This is another question that I can't really give a straight answer to.
It will heavily depend on your ex's personality, the depth of your relationship (how long you two were together, how heavily were you invested in each other etc), and especially on what you do during this time you two aren't talking.
If you just sit on the couch magically waiting for your ex to start missing you, I have some bad news for you: it's probably not going to happen.
However, if you put this time to good use (again, more on that later), there is a very very good likelihood that your ex will come crawling back to you faster than you think.
They might start to miss you after a week or they might start missing you after two months. It all depends on how you act and how they are as a person.
Is There Anything I Can Do To Make Them Miss Me Faster?
Yes. And this is the thing I've been hinting at this whole article.
Down below, I'm going to link you a video that is going to teach you a foolproof ex back method composed by Brad Browning.
This man is about to make things effortless for you...
This is a method that has been surfacing the internet for a while already and the track record this method has at practically FORCING your ex to come back to you is insane.
I'm literally not kidding here. If you watch the video below and employ this technique to the tee, before you even know it, your ex will your ex will be pinning you against your bedroom wall, gazing at you with that look they used to give you, and kissing you like you're the last person they'll ever kiss.
Now, before you get excited, I would like to just make one thing clear:
Do not watch this video unless you ACTUALLY want your ex back... Because that's exactly what is going to happen.
If your ex isn't good for you and you know it, you shouldn't get them back using this.
With that being said, here is the link:
Good luck!
Thank you for this!
No problem! Happy to help!
Super helpful:)
Happy to hear that!
HUGE thumbs up for Browning’s method! Worked so well!
Super happy to hear that it helped you out! Getting an ex back truly feels amazing..!
Great information!
Thank you !
Browning changed my life!
Glad he could help you out too!