How To Make A Man Feel Loved -12 Things He WON’T Tell You

How to make a man feel loved? Whether you are casually dating or whether you are already in a serious and committed relationship, this question will eventually pop up in your head.

Right now, I'm going to help you out. Here is exactly how you make your man feel so loved that he will never even consider leaving anywhere else.

Before we start, a fair warning:

One of these tips I'm about to give will get a little sexual... and if that bothers you, feel free to skip over it. However, please realize that it is easily the most effective tip of this article!

With that being said, let's start.

#1 Compliment Him

Easy right?

Well, apparently not. There are countless of men I talk to who tell me that their girlfriends/wives never almost never compliment them.

Guys need compliments too!

Your boyfriend/husband/guy you are seeing will NEVER admit this but trust me, he loves to get complimented just as much if not more than you do.

Tell him that his hair looks good. Tell him that his body is looking extra sexy today. Make it seem really genuine and I guarantee he will remember and think about your compliments for a long time.

#2 Tell Him

Tell him that you love him. 

There isn't an easier way to make a man feel loved than to just tell him that you love him.

Now, if you are super new to a relationship, you should use the other tips of this article first.

The problem arrives when you get deeper into a relationship and saying "I love you" get's rarer and rarer. Remember to tell him this, especially if it has already been a while.

#3 Do Little Things For Him

Bring him food after work, get him his favorite coffee, surprise him with his favorite ice cream.

These are all little things but they will mean the world to him because you will show him that you are thinking about him.

Just think about how it feels like when he gives you one of his sweatshirts. Pretty great right?

It's the same feeling for him.

#4 Listen To Him When He Is Talking

When he is telling you something, listen to him.

You might feel like you are already doing this but ask yourself are you really?

Drop your phone and make eye contact with him when he is telling you something. He will never admit it but it means the world to him if he feels like he is really being listened. 

Even if it's just rambling on about his boring workday, make the effort to listen to him.

#5 Flirt With Him

Flirting is a thing that often gets forgotten the further a relationship develops and I can confidently say that it is a relationship killer.

In order for a relationship to stay fresh and the sexual tension high, flirting is a must.

Now, I know that when the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship is over, flirting will reduce by quite a bit. Even still, try to tease him and flirt with him any time you see the opportunity arise.

This will keep things fresh and it will keep his eyes on you, and only you.

#6 Be Proud Of Having Him

If you want to know the quickest route to killing a guy's attraction and making him feel like he is not needed, it's hiding him.

Instead, do the opposite. Show everyone that this is your boyfriend and you are so happy and proud to be his girlfriend.

When you meet friends, introduce him as your boyfriend immediately.

Never make him think that you are taking him for granted. If you aren't proud to have him, he will eventually seek out someone who is.

#7 Don't Be Controlling

Now, first off let me say that there is nothing wrong with a little jealousy for him. You can and should show him that you are a bit jealous when he gives other girls a lot of attention.

However, there is a line that should never get crossed and that line comes faster than you think.

You might think that being overly jealous about him will let him know how much you love him but actually, it does the opposite. It will make him think you are really insecure and needy and it will kill his attraction for you fast.

Don't tell him that he can't see his female friends or anything like that. You can be jealous but you should not be controlling.

#8 Use Your Phone Less

Don't even try to tell me that you are not guilty of this. We all are.

Too much phone usage will turn him off really quick and it will make him think that he is not needed.

Close that video and read that email later. Instead, spend time with him.

Look him in the eyes and realize that he is there to give you company, not your phone.

#9 Appreciate His Alone Time

If he wants to have some time alone, appreciate him and let him have it.

Does he want to go out with the guys for the weekend? Let him, and don't bombard him with a hundred text messages asking him where he is and who he is there with

#10 No Rejections

If he is trying to do something for you, don't ever make him feel rejected for it.

For example, if he is trying to fix your bike but then accidentally breaks something while fixing it, don't rip him a new one just because he messed up. He was trying to make you happy in the first place and you should be grateful for it.

If he cooks you breakfast or gives you something in general, thank him. Don't just take these things for granted because if he feels like he is getting rejected for them, he will stop doing them. 

#11 Take Care Of Yourself

Now, this might seem like a weird tip and you might wonder what this has to do with making a man feel loved. 

Allow me to explain:

It's no secret that men are visually stimulated and they must feel a physical attraction for their partner in order for things to be great.

When you take care of yourself and you awe him with your femininity, things will stay great. You need to enjoy being a woman and you need to express your beauty to him.

If you two are going out and he knows that you wore that sexy outfit just for him or that you used that special perfume just because he was coming over, he will know that you appreciate him and you don't take him for granted.

If you truly want to make your man feel loved, you need to continue taking care of and maintaining your physical appearance. Remember, he fell for you just the way you are. He doesn't want you to change.

#12 Give Him The Best Blowjob Of His Life

At the beginning of this article, I mentioned a powerful sexual tip I was going to give to you, and right now, we've arrived at that point.

If you're immediately thinking "oh, my guy enjoys the blowjobs he gets. I don't needs this", I would like to present a little fact to you...

There have been studies done that prove that as many as 90% of guys FAKE enjoying a blowjob and lie about "how good it feels" to not hurt a girl's feelings.

I know right...

Want to know something even more shocking?

Studies have also proven that a LOUSY BLOWJOB is the SECOND most common reason for a breakup.