UPDATE AUGUST 2020 : Added a video at the bottom of this article that's guaranteed to make them miss you.

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So, you have broken up but you aren't over them.

You want to get them back.

And since you want to get them back, you probably realize that learning how to make your ex miss you is one of the best things you could do in this situation.

Look at it this way:

If your ex doesn't miss you, why on earth would they want to get back together with you?

Makes no sense right?

Yup, that's why it's crucial that they miss you on at least some level before you two can actually get back into a relationship.

How To Make Your Ex Miss You

Now, I'm assuming here that since you are wanting to make him miss you/wanting to make her miss you, you actually want them back and you aren't just trying to do this you because you are immature.

If you actually don't want your ex back, I highly suggest you don't waste your time with the techniques I'm about to teach.

Alright, let's start.

The first thing I want you to do is to think about this:

What actually makes you miss someone?

Do you personally miss someone who you see and talk to every day? 

No?

Do you personally miss someone who you are constantly in contact with every day?

No?

That's what I thought too and you just basically answered your own question.

The way to make your ex miss you is to vanish for a period of time.

Yes, that's right. Cut off all contact with them. The process is really that simple.

Actually, give them time to miss you.

Studies have actually shown that once they do start missing you, it's an insanely powerful urge. Similar to how a junkie withdraws from their drugs.

Make Your Ex Miss You Using No Contact

At the moment, you can't talk yourself into your ex's heart. I don't care who you are, you just can't.

Not talking to them at all might seem really counter-intuitive at the moment and many people fear that their ex will just forget about them if they keep silent for some time. 

This just quite simply isn't true, unless of course your relationship didn't mean anything to them and lasted for like a month.

The more you talk to your ex during this stage, the less they are going to miss you.

If you aren't serious about this and you are not going to commit to being silent to them for at least a time period of a month, don't even bother because it's not going to work in that case.

Now that we have gotten that out of the way...

What To Actually Do During Your Absence To Make Them Miss You?

Well, you put yourself first.

You live your life like a total badass. Do cool things, pick up a new hobby for example. Act like your breakup is the last thing on your mind.

By improving yourself and becoming more attractive, you skyrocket your sexual marketplace value.

When your ex eventually sees this, they will wonder why they ever broke up with you in the first place.

The best part here is that you don't even have to do huge things to improve your value to them.

You could start working out more, you could eat healthier, you could get a new haircut, pick up some new clothes and the list goes on and on.

During no contact, whatever you can do to keep your mind off your breakup is good. If that means picking up more things from work, do it!

The important thing here is to make sure that you don't dwell in self-pity during no contact and just lay on the couch eating chips.

Ask yourself: "why did my ex break up with me"?

What is the fundamental reason they lost attraction to you?

Maybe you got too needy?

Too jealous?

Maybe they loved something about you and you stopped displaying that thing?

Whatever the case is, try to focus on improving yourself by removing these unattractive traits.

You see, even when you do get your ex back if you haven't fixed these things you two will just end up breaking up again.

This will lead to another heartbreak and I want you to get them back for good this time.

Don't Be Too Available

You already know that you should be employing no contact and that you should keep your ex in total silence but what if they contact you?

Well, you might be thinking to yourself that this is awesome and that you should instantly respond. I say you need to think again.

You see, your ex does still miss you on some level.

Now, they might not be attracted to you enough to want to have a relationship with you at the moment but trust me, they do still think about you and miss at least some aspects of you.

Once you have disappeared by employing no contact, they just might start to realize that they are missing something about you. This is where you need to stay strong.

Unless your ex specifically asks you or hints at you in a really direct way that they would like to get back together with you, (happens more often than you think when you employ no contact properly), you shouldn't respond to them and let me explain why:

After breaking up, your ex most likely sees you as someone really low value. They probably think that they could just call you once and get you back with a snap of their fingers. 

Do you want to be someone low value?

No?

Well, nobody does and that is why it's so important to combat the urge to talk to your ex.

If they text you something and you start trying to form a conversation with them, it's not going to benefit you.

You are just subconsciously reminding your ex of the negative things that led to your breakup.

Now, this doesn't mean you should be rude. If you accidentally run into them in public (and I really mean accidentally not like some people who intentionally try to bump into their ex), you shouldn't just flat out ignore them. You can smile say "hi" to them and there will be no harm done.

How To Talk To Your Ex To Make Them Miss You?

During the time of no contact, you have become a total badass and the absolute best version of yourself. Your ex will be eager to hear from you already and they might even be the ones to contact you if you followed the guide I linked above.

Make it a clear goal for yourself that you are only going to talk about positive things with your ex and that you aren't going to bring up any sort of drama.

Now, as to how you should actually contact them, I think a text message is the best way to start out.

Why not call them you ask?

Well, texting is lighter than calling and at this point, your ex hasn't heard from you in a while so you want to give them the chance of actually thinking about a proper response instead of just calling them out of the blue.

Also, don't act as their ex when you are just starting to form conversations.

Don't talk about your relationship or the reasons that it ended. None of that stuff.

Keep things positive and fun for them. Make them want to talk to you. Talk about the stuff you have been doing and how awesome life has been.

UPDATE August 2020 : Special Video

Summary

- Realize that your ex will not be able to miss you if you keep contact up with them.

- Take the mentality where your breakup is the last thing on your mind and you are just enjoying life. 

- Employ no contact.

- During no contact, improve your life and focus on removing negative characteristics about yourself. Become more attractive with self-improvement.

- You could even try to hang out with the opposite sex during no contact. Once your ex finds out about this it will automatically create jealousy within them.