After a breakup, wondering whether or not your ex really is over you can be quite frustrating. Right now, I'm about to give you the 4 biggest signs your ex still loves you.
1. They Try To Keep In Contact With You Regularly
2. Your Ex is Really Emotional For A Long Time After The Breakup
3. They Bring Up Nostalgic And Happy Memories
4. They Send Really Mixed Signals
Bonus : What If I Didn't See Any Of These Signals?
Let's look at what each of these signs mean and what you need to do about them....
Could they still have feelings for you?
Now, before we start digging into these signs, I want to ask you this:
If your ex drove to your house right now and suddenly begged you to get back together with them... saying that the breakup was their fault and that they desperately need you back into their life...
How would that make you feel?
I know my exact answer to that question, because that's precisely what happened to me back when I got back together with my ex...
Your palms get sweaty... "What are they doing at my house?"
And then when the magical words come out of their mouth... "I need to be with you, I can't live without you"...
It's the warmest, happiest most joyful feeling I can describe...
Now, why am I telling you this?
I'm telling you this because the above is exactly what can happen to you if you see your ex giving you any of these signs I'm about to list...
And even if they don't, I have a few "tricks" up my sleeve that I'm going to give to you at the end of this article that are literally going to make your ex crawl over broken glass just to get you back and kiss you like they've never kissed before...
Hi there!
My name is Chris, and right now, I'm going to guide you back into your ex's arms, even if they currently hate your guts.
Leaked picture of you and your ex after applying the advice you are about to learn...
If you are anything like me, getting back together with "the one that got away" seems too good to be true... so, without further ado, let's start:
Can You Get Your Ex Back?
Wondering the answer to that question? I've created a quiz that will tell definitively if you still have a chance with your ex or if you should consider moving on...
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Signs Your Ex Still Loves You
Sign #1 - They Try To Keep In Contact With You Regularly
This is one of the most obvious signs your ex can give you.
If you find that after the breakup you are getting regularly contacted by your ex, it's a no-brainer they are still constantly thinking about you.
The more this goes on, the more confident you can be that your ex isn't quite over you.
For example, if it's already been months after your breakup and your ex is still trying to keep contact with you, it's pretty clear what's going on...
Your ex still loves you.
They might be thinking about you more than you know
This is even more clearly seen if you personally haven't made any real effort to stay in touch with your ex.
If you have been ignoring your ex and they still are trying to get in contact with you, there is a very good likelihood that they aren't enjoying their single life all that much.
When this is going on longer and longer without any end in sight, you know that your ex can't get you out of their head.
Suppose you start doing no contact. You obviously didn't tell your ex about it.
Then a couple of days later, they call you. They want to talk. They ask you how you have been doing and what you are doing.
Your ex is feeling confused after you stopped contacting them.
They are maybe even scared of losing you completely. This is how push/pull dynamics work. When you pull away, your ex starts pushing.
Your ex might be feeling confused and having mixed emotions
Is your ex hitting you up for the most random reasons?
"Hey, do you know any cheesecake recipes"
"Check out this picture it's so funny"
If they are, they are not over you.
Drunks texts/calls are another huge sign that something is up.
If your ex is asking you to come to meet them at a club or a bar, or in general hitting you up after they have had alcohol, I can bet money that they aren't over you.
Sign #2 - Your Ex Is Really Emotional For a Long Time After The Breakup
Now, this might not make sense to you at first...
Your ex might seem upset or even angry after your breakup but more often than not, this is a really good sign.
I want you to understand something...
Anger is not the opposite of love.
If your ex is angry at you, there’s a good chance they still have strong feelings for you.
Think about it yourself...
If they didn't feel anything for you, why would they care? Anger means they still care for you.
Science has actually proven that when a person is missing someone they will develop some of the strongest feelings they have ever felt so you should take this as a good sign.
Alright now, before you get too excited I need to disclose something here...
Obviously, if you cheated with your ex's best friend, they found out and are now angry, you shouldn't be happy because in that case it is not a good sign.
If you hurt your ex really badly, they are going to be emotional for a long time and this has nothing to do with them giving you signs that they still love you.
Now, that we got that out of the way, let's continue...
Anger can be a really good sign to you, but you need to use your common sense
If you didn't do anything drastic to hurt your ex and cause them to become angry at you during the final days you spent together, and your ex still seems really emotional and possibly angry, it means they really aren't over you at all.
That's why in the above scenario, your ex's negative emotions are actually positive signs your ex still loves you.
At one point or another though, if you are looking to win them back you will need your ex to let go of these negative emotions.
You need to learn how to make your ex return to an emotionally neutral state.
Sign #3 - They Bring Up Nostalgic and Happy Memories
This ties in with sign #1 beautifully.
If your ex is contacting you regularly like mentioned in sign #1, it's usually a really good sign.
Usually
Now, if they are just asking you to pay for your shared Netflix account or to return their clothes, you shouldn't be celebrating.
If however, their contact attempts are nothing business-like, there is a very good chance they still want you.
When you receive contacts from your ex I want you to think about what the theme of them is.
Are they really happy and upbeat? Nostalgic? Maybe even using sexual innuendos?
All this will lead you closer to figuring out if they really do still love you.
If they are bringing up happy memories you two shared, or something fun you experienced, they might be holding onto you more than you think.
If your ex brings up fun times you two had together there is a good chance that something is going on
Sign #4 -They Send Really Mixed Signals
You know how it goes...
One minute they are missing you like crazy the second, they hate your guts.
It's very common for someone to end a relationship and then start to backtrack and feel conflicted.
If your ex is giving you mixed signals, there is a very good chance it could mean that they aren't really committed to the breakup,
Now. the most likely scenario is that your ex is trying to keep their options open.
They might be in love with you but still want to break up since they see that as the only possibility,
This means your ex will try to keep you as a backup plan for as long as they can.
While it does seem cruel, it's the truth. Your ex wants someone to have around when they are feeling lonely and this obviously requires to keep you around for these times.
Your ex will do this exactly as mentioned above:
By sending hot and cold signals to you.
Right now you are probably thinking that this doesn't help you in any way if they just want to have you around as a backup plan.
Luckily there is a caveat...
If your ex is doing this, you know that they are not fully ready to let go of you.
They still have romantic feelings for you.
Their affection for you might not be as strong as it were before, but you can rest assured that deeply they still do care about you and they are not ready to let go.
Before you congratulate yourself, I have important advice for you.
Do not let your ex do this under any circumstance
The goal is to get your ex back for good - not for a little while
You will not bow down and become their little backup plan that they come to if all else fails. You want them back completely and for good right?
A real relationship is what you are looking for. This is why you need to realize when your ex is doing this so you can stop it before it's too late.
Becoming their backup plan is basically the same as being friend-zoned.
“Becoming their backup plan is basically the same as being friend-zoned.”
Now, who would want to be friend-zoned?
Can you think of anyone?
I can't either, so I hope you now realize why it's so crucial to avoid this at all costs.
The last thing you want is that your ex sees you as someone who will just stick around and wait like a good little puppy if they one day decide that getting back together with you is a good idea.
If you do this, that day will never come.
Don't let your ex hold you as some backup plan.
The goal is to make your ex to see that you are going to be gone from their life if they don't act quickly, and feel that pressure instead of just letting them keep their options open.
You need to make your ex feel like if they don't take you back quickly - you are going to be long gone.
But Chris, What If I Didn't See Any Of These Signals Or I'm Unsure Whether They Want Me Back Or No?
Alright, if you went through these signs and you still feel on the fence or unsure about your ex's desire towards you, don't worry.
In the above situation all you need to do is listen to me for the next minute because this is going to be the most important information you will ever receive about getting them back.
Here is why:
I didn't see any of these signs either when I wanted my ex back.
My ex didn't contact me, they weren't emotional, they didn't bring up any memories and they damn surely didn't send me any mixed signals....
And I still got them back...
How did I do it you may ask?
Well, it involves a long story with a dating Facebook group and a certain video that changed everything for me...
If you want, you can read my full case study of how I got my ex back by clicking on this link.
However, if you don't want to read my case study and you want to skip straight to the goods, what I basically did was employ the advice of a certain video that I'm going share a link to at the bottom of this page.
Now, before you think to yourself "yeah right, a "magical video" will SURELY teach me how to get my ex back", I want to say something:
That's exactly what I thought too...
Until I saw the video... and tried the strategies taught... and less than 4 days later, my ex drove to my house and DEMANDED to get back together with me.
Still don't believe me?
Just watch the video and then come back here to comment down below... If the advice you learn doesn't help you to get them back at all, just leave a comment below and I will personally send you $50.
That's how good the advice is.
Without any further talk, here it is: