SEPTEMBER 2020 UPDATE : Added A 99.9% Guaranteed Method To Get Them Back At Tip #10
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In this article, I'm going to give you some really useful tips you can utilize if the situation comes where you run into your ex.
Now, if you are looking to back together with them, it's absolutely essential to understand how to act around your ex.
I get asked this question on an almost daily basis so today, listen tight.
I'm going to reveal 9 powerful tips on how to act around your ex.
Let's start.
9 Tips On How To Act Around You Ex
Tip #1 Be Confident
If I could only give you one piece of advice, it would be this one.
Confidence will get you anything.
Men like confident women and women like confident men.
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People who are confident are also way more relaxed in social situations.
This is because confident people don't rely on the opinion of others and this causes them to become magnets to social success.
Confidence is one of the most attractive characteristics you could have.
Speak with a stable vocal tone, have good eye contact and good posture. All these things will contribute to how confident you appear.
If you aren't a very confident person yet, start working on becoming one immediately. I can't stress this enough.
I do understand this does take some time though so I would just recommend to fake it till you make it.
Tip #2 Don't Be Overly Nice
Being too nice around your ex is a super common mistake and I don't blame you.
I mean, if you aren't educated on the subject, it can be really easy to fall into the mousetrap of thinking that being super nice to them will make them like you more.
The opposite is true actually and that is the reason why I'm including this tip on this list.
No, you shouldn't buy your ex these expensive gifts all the time and no, you shouldn't be constantly giving compliments to them to stroke their ego.
As the old saying goes, nice guys finish last, and in this case, it happens to both nice guys and nice girls.
In real life, the overly nice person doesn't actually get the girl/get the man. That stuff only happens in movies.
Tip #3 Don't Be Overly Mean
This should go without saying.
Just because I told you to not be too nice to your ex, doesn't mean you should start throwing insults their way.
I know some of the things they say might trigger you... a lot.
You should absolutely defend yourself so you don't appear to be a pushover but just try to not completely lash out on them.
Tip #4 Dress To Impress
I know running into your ex can happen as an accident but if you get even the slightest hint that your ex might be at the same place you are going to, dress to impress.
Dressing to impress will not only obviously make you look better, but it will also make you feel more confident too and as I mentioned in step #1, confidence is key.
By dressing to impress I don't mean you have to go out there and buy the most expensive clothing pieces of the store.
Dressing good and looking your best doesn't mean you have to spend a lot of money.
Not at all actually. It's way better to wear something cheap that actually fits you and suits you than to wear something expensive that doesn't.
By having some nice clothes and wearing them proudly and with good posture, you make yourself appear way more attractive.
Tip #5 Don't Ask If They Have Been Thinking About You
This should come as no surprise.
As already mentioned in my review of The Ex Factor Guide, the most effective and comprehensive guide for getting your ex back, neediness needs to be eliminated.
That is precisely why you should never ask your ex about whether or not they have been thinking about you.
Nothing shouts "I'm desperate" more than asking your ex this.
It's literally the worst thing you can do because it will make it seem like all you have been thinking about is your breakup with them.
Please don't ask your ex whether or not they have been thinking about you. This just screams that you are needy and desperate.
Remember, being desperate will turn your ex off faster than anything.
Tip #6 Don't Talk About Your Breakup
This is a deadly mistake I see people make all the time.
For the love of everything please don't talk about your breakup with your ex when you bump into them somewhere, especially if you want to have any hopes of getting them back.
I hope I make myself clear here.
Trust me when I say that doing this will cause you more harm than good, even if you think that "talking things through" would be a good idea.
The key is to have a light conversation with some flirting thrown in there if you are bold enough.
Please for the love of everything, don't have this super deep conversation about the past when you run into them.
If you instead, decide to have this emotional conversation about the past with them, you will do more harm than good.
I know this is way easier said than done and seeing your ex in person for the first time after breaking up can be nerve-wracking.
Just focus on switching your mindset into having some fun and maybe building some attraction instead of trying to get closure with them by having this deep conversation.
#7 Limit The Time
If you have planned this meeting with your ex beforehand, then, by all means, see them for as long as it's necessary.
However, if you just happen to bump into them somewhere without it being planned, you should focus on just catching up with them.
Throw some flirting in there too and try to keep a positive vibe but also let it be known that you have to be somewhere.
Of course, you shouldn't be rude about this. Just know when it's the right time to cut off the conversation.
I recommend stopping it when you two are on a high note.
That way you avoid having any awkward silences in your conversation.
Avoid having a super long conversation with them. This will create some mystery.
So, the perfect conversation would be something where you catch up with them while simultaneously flirting with them, and then cutting off the conversation and leaving it on a high note.
By doing this, you have just re-built some attraction with them and reminded them of some of your positive traits.
Remember: your ex doesn't want to be with the person you were at the end of your breakup.
You need to become the person they fell for before or an even better version of that.
#8 Avoid Getting Friendzoned
This is another pitfall people often fall into.
You know how it goes...
"We can still be friends right"?
If you agree when those words come out of your ex's mouth, you are committing a terrible mistake.
You see, being friends with your ex might seem like a good idea at first but trust me, it's not.
Unless you are 100% over them and you have no desires to get them back, you shouldn't be friends with your ex.
The friend-zone is easier to fall into than you think.
That's why it's so important to always remain at least a little bit flirty towards them.
This way, they still see you as a potential partner instead of just a friend.
#9 Don't Act Jealous
If you run into your ex, they can easily mention something that makes you scream inside.
"I went on this date with this new person last Saturday".
I know you want to comment something snappy when they say this but try to keep it together.
Act as if it doesn't phase you at all.
Now, while it could be possible that they are intentionally trying to make you jealous, it's pretty unlikely.
Your ex can say stuff that makes you furious when you are talking to them. Just keep your cool.
Just keep your cool and brush it off as if nothing serious in your conversation happened and then switch topics.
If your ex sees that you get jealous over them, they can easily think you are still heavily affected by the breakup.
You don't want this to happen.
SEPTEMBER 2020 UPDATE:
Alright...
I was going to update this article for you and instead I found something that will completely transform your current situation.
This is what I found...
Here's what I mean:
Down below, I'm going to link you a video presentation that is going to teach you how you can FORCE your ex to feel so much obsession towards you that they have NO other choice but to take you back.
It's a video made by Brad Browning, and it was originally emailed to me by a reader of this blog asking me what I thought about his method of "making your ex want you back so bad".
When I looked into his method, I was amazed.
"Why haven't I thought about this" was a common sentence that day...
I realized this is something I HAVE to recommend on this blog.
However, please know that I'm only recommending this to those of you who TRULY want to get their ex's back.
If you just want to play with their emotions, this is not for you.
You can think of this as a gesture of good will to you, my reader.
Without further talking if you want to get your ex to come crawling back to you, this is what you need to do:
Good luck, and I would love to hear what your results are in the comments down below!
What a life changing article! So happy I found this before I bumped into my ex and got the chance to act really awkward…
Happy it could help you out!
Do you think Browning’s ex factor guide would work in a situation where I got dumped out of the blue without a warning? Haven’t heard much of him since…
Well, since I have nothing to gain by lying to you, I cannot 100% guarantee you that it will help you get your ex back. WITH THAT BEING SAID, do I think that as long as you employ it to the tee you have an amazing shot at winning them back? Yes I do. The above is why I would pose this question to you: What do you have to lose? If it’s the love of your life we are talking about, I think you should at least try.
Alright well, I think you convinced me to try!
Yes!! Taking action is the key here. I would love to hear how it goes for you!
Holy sh** I actually GOT THEM BACK. Absolutely insane. After the 3 hardest weeks of my life living in uncertainty of what my ex is thinking, they finally called me and asked to talk to me! We agreed to give our relationship another shot and I COULD NOT BE HAPPIER! Thank you so much for pushing me over the edge Chris and making me take action! I’m forever grateful to you.
You almost made me tear up with your comment and I’m a grown man!! SO happy for you and I hope you two can have a strong and lasting relationship this time around!
Had to come back and tell you that after employing Browning’s ex factor thing for 25 days, I got my ex back!! Was not easy to do all the things he tells you to do but so worth it! Thank you for writing this Chris!
So happy to hear that! And yes, it’s not easy but so damn worth it once you succeed!
Great!
Happy you enjoyed it!
Thx for this:)
No problem!!